If your boyfriend can't stay hard during sex, don't blame yourself. The last thing he wants is for you to feel guilty.
It's not that he doesn't find you attractive, isn't into the relationship, or that he's cheating; he just has a lot of pressure and anxiety going on inside his head and it's messing with his ability to get an erection.
When things are getting hot and heavy with your boyfriend, he has a lot of things going on in his mind that is interfering with his lovemaking. There's a lot of pressure on him to be a good lover by pleasing you.
During these nervous moments, his body is pumping out a lot of adrenaline, which triggers a "fight or flight" response in the body; this causes his body to redirect blood flow from less important areas (such as the penis) to more important muscles.
This may seem like a huge problem for him, but there are some things you can do to alleviate the pressure off of him:
1. Be Supportive
This is probably the most important. My ex-girlfriend used to make jokes and say how I was "broken".
This obviously didn't help the situation at all because any time we tried to have sex again, I had even MORE pressure on me to perform well and this just made matters much worse. Always let him know you care about him and that you're just happy to be with him.
2. Be Positive
Let him know you aren't disappointed, upset, or unsatisfied with him. The less pressure you're putting on him, the better.
Communication is key here because it helps build confidence and a more comfortable relationship. Once he becomes more comfortable with the whole situation, he'll be less nervous.
3. Be Patient
I know it may be frustrating for you, but it's even worse for him. Don't get angry when he can't get hard because this will do nothing but make him feel horrible for leaving you unsatisfied. His ego is already hurt enough.
Erectile dysfunction is one of the most embarrassing things a man can go through, but with your support, positive attitude, and patience he'll be on his way to becoming a better lover in no time.
It's frustrating when your boyfriend can't stay hard during sex, but be sure to know the problem is neither yours nor his. It's just a small hurdle you two will have to deal with together.
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