There is perhaps no more emasculating feeling in the world than being told by your partner that you cannot "last" long enough during sexual intercourse for them, or for anyone. Your partner has probably mentioned more than once how they have absolutely no chance of having an orgasm due to your "lightning speed" or "five-minute man" abilities.
This undoubtedly grates at you to the point that you are desperate to seek treatment. But what treatments are there?
As we are living in a rather Internet-savvy age, chances are that you have plugged the words "premature ejaculation" into a search engine and scoured the internet for any information about cures for this dysfunction. You must first consider the following factors:
- Premature ejaculation is loosely defined as affecting a man who cannot sustain sex for more than 2 minutes after penetrating his partner
- If you last, on average, 6-7 minutes during sex, this is normal. You may want to consider suggesting that your partner has an issue in achieving orgasm or try different foreplay methods to help them along.
- Having one experience of premature ejaculation does not qualify you as having a true "dysfunction"
If you feel that you are not stressed, or depressed, have not suffered any physical head or spinal cord injuries, and have no psychological issues that you are aware of pertaining to sex or sexual repression, then you may simply have a very sensitive genital area. A sensitive pelvic area can also greatly contribute to a man's ejaculatory abilities.
There are a number of treatments available to you:
- Prescription drugs, usually from the antidepressant drug family or those related to erectile dysfunctions
- Behavioral and sexual therapy, usually involving a start-stop technique
- Psychological therapy, usually only if you do have any history of sexual issues (molestation, repression, pornography addiction)
- Numbing agents, usually in the form of creams and sprays
Popular in Asian countries (though not promoted in the USA publicly, due to FDA disapproval) is a de-sensitizing spray. These sprays contain a local anesthetic that will literally numb your penis and the surrounding area so that you will not feel any of the "sensations" of sex.
Many men have claimed that these are an absolute godsend, as they then find that they are able to not only give their partner orgasm after orgasm but then actually OUTLAST their partner in bed.
Be warned, however, that although you might outlast your partner, you might not be able to achieve orgasm. Many men, especially when first using the spray, use it to so great an abundance that they remain numbed for well over an hour and are then not able to climax.
Another consideration is that there have been no clinical studies on the long-term effects of using an anesthetic on the genitals, so you are taking somewhat of a health risk by using it.
When it comes to treatment options, I say, "To each their own!" If the spray proves to be effective for you, then all power to you. Be sure, however, to discuss any potential risks that may be involved with the use of such sprays before you DO actually use them.
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